Have you ever been attracted to another girl? - Jodie-Ann (The Run-On Sentences of Life)
Oh, now we're getting nitty-gritty, huh? Well, if that's how it is...
Answer: No, I have not. Not in a sexual way, or in a "I want to be in a relationship with you" way, at least, which is what I'm pretty sure you meant ;P
I remember when I was in middle school (2003ish - 2006) there was this new fad: being bisexual. Seriously, it was "all the rage". Girls started kissing their best (female) friends on the cheeks, the lips, making those Hollywood fantasies of males come true (or making them think they were true), all that jazz.
I don't think they really understood what "bisexual" was. Suddenly every girl in my class was bisexual, or most at least. Hell, even my best friend at the time became bisexual! (She's currently dating a male, if I'm not mistaken. She's blocked me on Facebook so I can't stalk her pictures anymore xD).
And yes, I was sort of peer-pressured into becoming bisexual. I never was. I didn't lie about it though, as it may seem from that. I never said I was "bi". If someone ever asked me if I'd ever date a girl, I said "maybe," because who knows? Maybe one day I would. I can't tell the future, it's possible. If someone asked me, "do you think she's hot?" I'd answer truthfully.
That's not being bi, I know that. I was like 12 and had very dramatic friends; who didn't in middle school? Fads caught on like colds.
Other things I was pressured into liking was Nirvana. Can't say I ever really "liked" their music.
I just can't find women sexually/emotionally attractive. Honestly, I think I would hate being in a relationship with a woman. Hell, I can barely stand myself and my girl friends, what makes me think I could stand ANOTHER woman, for the rest of my life?!
HA. Noooooo thank you. No me gusta.
I've always loved the physique of a male. I'm very traditional. I like when my guy is bigger than me, stronger, taller, etc. I like to feel little and as if he can take care of me. I love the "manly man" who's also a gentleman. And I have one :)
I know you might have already addressed this in a previous blog or perhaps don't want to talk about this since the quality of conversation on the Internet of this is so low (So I totally understanding not answering. Not trying to start a flame war here) but what are your religious views?
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean Angela..."I've always loved the physique of a male. I'm very traditional. I like when my guy is bigger than me, stronger, taller, etc. I like to feel little and as if he can take care of me. I love the "manly man" who's also a gentleman. And I have one :)" Soooo true!!!
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Well, if you are asking, then yes. I've thought about it many times actually. Maybe it's just the thought of something different or the fact that I've connected with other women so deeply on a friendship level that in a way I've had a "crush" on one of them.
ReplyDeleteDoes that make sense?
That's funny Amp. I remember you mentioning it before. Wow. Now I have known a few bisexual girls who go back and date boys as they get older and find it less hassle, but I've never known it to be a "fad". Often times it just seemed to be the one or two girls that interested them. But that many... man... wish I went to your school. Could have started a fad that made my dating options better:D
ReplyDeleteK - Haha, you're the complete opposite of me in that area! I've always clicked with guys much better than girls. I don't know, there's just something about them that makes me feel like I have to fight for being myself or something. Like there's always this secret war of who's prettier, has the most guy friends, most popular, etc. Maybe because I'm still a teenager.
ReplyDeleteJamie - Yep, this is why I hate my MS years lol Anything new, everyone loved and suddenly was a huge fan of. I see them everywhere at my college now ><
Cool :D This is a really interesting answer :D Thank you!
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